Anger is a result, most of the time, by someone not getting their own way. This is why Jesus told us to serve others, as this is the solution to all anger, and the source of all joy. J=Jesus, O=Others, and Y= you. Yes I have fallen in the trap of wanting my way over the way of others, even thinking my way was better, even more Godly. HA To wash others feet wins others over quicker then to try to argue your position.